Written By: Ramona Payne

To begin with we are all responsible for how we conduct ourselves online as well as offline: To begin this observation only, and this article is of my opinion only. So, before all of you who will no doubt want to tar, and feather me for bringing to light a very serious problem here online among all of us, and we are the ones who have brought this problem upon ourselves. I am only telling my side of this story because, it involves me as much as it does another living human being on any site here in cyberspace. I wrote a similar article a little over a year ago for the folks of which I took to be my friends at the time on Myspace: However, this article will hit all of them as there are millions of people with online friendships on about a hundred different sites. So, I am including  them as this observation will stand true for them as well. Remember folks; this is just one journalists opinion, and not that of everyone here in cyberspace:

Thank You: And, happy reading:

Ramona Payne; A.K.A.  MzMona

First off; ladies you are as guilty of doing yourselves in here online, as much as the men are. You believed their line of trash willingly, and (open heartedly) in the hopes that this guy is for real. He really (likes) me or, the real big one here; he really (loves) me!!! Oh come on grow up; you know I am telling the truth here. How many lonely women from eighteen to eighty hasn’t been here online hoping to meet the man of her dreams in either a chat room or, a man that you added to your own friends list. So, how could you possibly be surprised or, have your feelings hurt when all of a sudden you have no communication from that man at all. Just like that. Without so much as a Dear Jane Kiss Off Message from the dirt bag:  And, you will spend the rest of your life wondering just what you could have possibly done or, said to merit this kind of treatment? When just the night before, you signed off with your so called (man of your dreams) he couldn’t tell you enough how much he loved you, and today he didn’t respond to any of your pleas to tell you what is wrong? Now, even if they did have the balls to answer you; there is no answer good enough that he could tell you that let;s him off the hook for the way he just ended your online romance that may have lasted one week or, one year. You simply get up one morning, go to your computer, and log on, and voila your dream mans profile picture is gone due to the fact he didn’t even have the guts to tell you that he was done with you, and moving on to his next victim: Yes. I said VICTIM: That is exactly what these online predators do to millions of women here online everyday of the week.

Ok. Ladies you too are at fault here for doing the exact same thing to a lot of the men here online. YOU, and YOUR 38 D’s, & YOUR Baby got back Booty, can bring a 6’5 in. man to his knees, and leave him crying like a babbling idiot in the middle of his living room floor, looking like a shell of the man he knew online amoxil himself to be before he got involved with you. And, the real sad part here, and the absolute shame of this is YOU don’t even care if that man is MARRIED or, not when YOU start your online CYBERSEX GAME with him. You lead them on just for the fun of the game, and the chase. Just until you get tired of toying with their feelings, until you have them right where you want them. Once you have that very dazed, and confused; “I say dazed, & confused here on their behalf because, they simply cannot believe their luck at getting the hottest looking Barbie Doll of the Century to fall in love with them” NOT!!!! Anyhow when you have that very misguided man eating out of your hand, and willing to give up everything in his life including his wife that took him maybe forty years to build; you strike with the sword in his back just as deeply as you can thrust it.

You convince them that you are in love with them knowing full well that most men in general will believe you when you tell them those three very potent words. But, you see; the man hasn’t got a clue that you are using him to make old Joe Blow a bit jealous or, maybe he is a man of means, and all of a sudden you have yourself an online Sugar Daddy. But, you are still in control of the game right up till touchdown. You use, and abuse this man’s feelings for you shamelessly. If you asked him to leave his partner or, ask him for money, and many other material goods he would probably sell everything he owns just to give you whatever you have asked of him.

Now folks; here is one that none of you saw coming at you!! I am going to give it up when it comes to all of the women here in cyberspace who add each other to their friends list, and over a short period of time they convince you that they simply love, and adore you. They will tell you that they love you just like a sister, and that they always will. Really? You Think? Hello? Any Women Reading This Feelin’ Me At All Here???? I thought so: Now, you too can say to yourself as you finish reading this article, if of course, you aren’t  too pissed off at the author to have gotten this far. I sure hope you are still here with me both Men, and Women as this is a subject matter that we all need to take much more seriously than we do. It is out of self defense that I have decided to write this article that is going out to all sites this time, and not just MYSPACE::::: You see; I had a friend once, not too long ago actually. I say had in the past tense due to the fact that an online friendship that was supposed to be harmless, and fun turned into a very violent situation, and my friend ended up (DEAD)!!!  Now, you are beginning to see my plight here in writing this article to put in every E-Zine, and regular magazine I can find to go to print with. I am doing this with a very sincere heart with the hope in my heart that all of you will take notice of just who your true online friends are.

We have no way of really knowing if anyone we meet here online is telling us the truth about themselves. Thankfully, we do have our own government’s version of the Internet Police to stay on top of any major disruptions that are or, could be perceived to be a threat to our nation. So, it really is left up to the rest of us as consenting adults to police ourselves, and not be so trusting, and gullible to any, and all people that we meet here online, and stop being so quick to add everyone that hits us up for a friend request without checking them out somewhat first.

I do believe that the first thing we all need to do here is make that inward self check to see if I am fit or, worthy to be a good friend to anyone here online be they male or, female. That is just a suggestion that I personally had to ask myself this morning, and then apply what I learned about myself to myself. I know this sounds a bit confusing right now but, it really makes great sense when you do that self check, and put yourself in that online friends place, and take a good look at yourself, and simply ask yourself this one question. Would I want to have (ME) as a friend here online, if so why would I want to be friends with me? I know I don’t have to explain all of this to any of you. I am not qualified to practice therapy on anyone let alone myself.

Perhaps at a later date I will also include the article I wrote for myspace a while back, and I think all of you will get even more of what I am trying to say here now. I just don’t want to wake up tomorrow, and log on to find that someone else didn’t have the guts to tell me that they had just outgrown our online sistership or, brother/sister friendship or, even just a male to female friendship that meant nothing more than that: We do outgrow each other here in the real world so, it only stands to reason that we would eventually outgrow each other here online as well. Just be a man or, a woman about it, and as the old cliché goes; cowboy or, cowgirl up, and tell that online friend that they have done absolutely nothing wrong, and they haven’t hurt you in any way whatsoever Camagra buy cheap online without prescription it’s just that you feel the need to move on past your friendship at that time. Don’t leave them heartbroken, and always wondering  just what they did to make you dump 1cheap generic cialis them for no good reason. Have common decency to let your one time friends know that you did care for them while they were a part of your online life, and that you wish them well, and end your friendship on a good note for the both of you.

Who knows in our society today; the one you call friend now could be your enemy in the next breath. So, I implore all of you to just listen to your own gut instinct when it comes to choosing your online friends. I am now going to get down off of my Shetland Pony, and leave all of you good folks with a sense of relief that MzMona has finally decided to shut her fingers up for the night: God bless each, and every one of you, and I hope that you will all take this one article to heart, and just maybe it could save your own life or, that of someone you do love, and care about who has hooked up with another scumbag online, and just didn’t know it until it was too late. I would rather have all of you tell me this over, and over in the hopes of protecting me, and keeping me alive today than have all of you standing over my casket tomorrow with one single white rose in your hand for a person you might have been able to help keep alive because, you were the one to send this article along to someone on your own friends list today:

Sincerely ;

Ramona Payne/Entertainment Journalist/On Air Personality/Book Author

A.K.A   MzMona

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